This is a tough situation you’re in. First, the house is still half yours provided the transfer on the deed was done solely for the purpose of refinancing. You may need to file a law suit to get an interim distribution of the marital assets, especially if you intend on getting the house. Your husband may very well have a legitimate excuse for not refinancing yet. Maybe not. It may be time to get an attorney and get his attention. Circumstances will dictate who will get what. Yours is a complex question to answer. I hope this helps.
Richard “Bert” Diener
The Rosen Law Firm
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