She won't leave, can I...?


#1

Dear openears:

Greetings. Yes, you can leave and turn off the utilities in your name, but you will be abandoning the residence and you may be responsible for alimony. If you are responsible for alimony, and you shut off the utilities to “starve your wife out” then, you may end up paying even more alimony then you would normally. So, talk to an attorney before you take any action. Thank you.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
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#2

My wife and I are separating, but she won’t leave the house and uses that as leverage to get more out of me. The house is my pre-marital property. All of the utilities have been in my name long before we were married. Can i leave the house and have all the utilities turned off until she leaves? I hate that I have to do this, but she is making my life hell.