My wife and I have been separated for more than 1 year. No separation agreement signed or interim distribution ordered or signed by judge. She left the home with both kids ages 4 & 3, driving a 2005 Honda Odyssey and I was left a 2005 Honda Civic. Odyssey valued at $14,470 / $9430 owed on loan = +5040 equity and Civic valued at $6940 / $7484 owed on loan = -$544 no equity / underwater. She has sent me orders to go to court in 2 weeks to try to force me to sign over / away the Odyssey ( which I 1st refused to her lawyer’s 1st & only verbal request ) so she can trade it in for a brand new SUV…What can I do on this issue?
She also makes over $150,000 per year based on two most recent tax returns from 2010 & 2009. She was ordered by MOJ by judge to pay mortgage once I finally moved out of marital home and she moved back in. I had the mortgage paid through the next month when she moved in but since getting MOJ she has not paid anything. What can I do about her not following MOJ…is it contempt of court? What steps can I take? She is drawing this all out and taking her time with her lawyer, since I no longer have an attorney and I am now pro se. I appreciate your time and I look forward to any positive responses regarding the aforementioned above. Thank you.