Greetings. What a tangled web we weave, no? Okay, there are only two grounds for divorce in North Carolina: A. Irreconcilable differences and B. Incurable Insanity. Adultery is not grounds for divorce, so you will have to use irreconcilable differences. Legally, cheating only matters when alimony (and maybe equitable distribution) are involved.
The child will be presumed yours if she gets pregnant during the marriage. I would go ahead and file for the divorce if I were you. Best of luck…and sorry it turned out so poorly.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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