I need lots of help and advice. I’m in Charlotte NC.
My wife has committed adultery and has now left our home that we rent. she left on july 14th.
I want the divorce and so does she.
I do not want to be with her anymore.
I went to the court house in Mecklenburg county today but they said they only did absolute divorce and for that we had to separated for a year and a day.
My Questions are.
Do we have to be separated for a that time if i,m divorcing her on the grounds of adultery?
If not then what is the procedure for me to do so.
what paperwork do I need to move forward?
Where do I file this paperwork?
how much will it cost?
do I have to prove she committed adultery?
This is a no contest divorce, she has agreed to the divorce and is willing to sign all paperwork.
I/we simply cannot afford a lawyer and must do this by ourselves.
I told her when we met five years ago that if she ever did anything like this that it would be over, she has and it is. there is no going back for me and I want rid of her from my life asap.
We have already agreed on who has what and we both want this to be as smooth as possible. we have no children. Her debts in her name are hers and visa verca. we have no credit card debt and we both work earning roughly the same money. so there will be no alimony issues.