Ten years ago, I bought my current residence and moved in with my girlfriend. Two years later, she signed a pre-nup and became my wife. We do not have children.
In the last several years her drinking has become progressively worse. We tried counseling and I tried Al-Anon, but now I am at the point of believing that the only way to save our marriage is if she gets help. So far, she has been unwilling to seek it.
I believe she needs to have her safety net (me) removed to be properly motivated to get help. I do not want to leave my house, which I bought before we were married and have paid every penny on.
What options do I have to get her out and/or get her help? I can’t take this abuse much longer.