Greetings. Alimony is based on a number of factors…the length of the marriage, the income and income earning ability of both parties, marital fault, etc. Now, a review of the alimony is going to look at a lot of the same factors.
In the situation you describe, some of those factors would be the length of the marriage, the terms of the original alimony order or separation agreement (I assume it was an order since you plan to seek a reduction, which you cannot do with a separation agreement unless the language allows you to), the age of the parties, the standard of living of the parties, the income and income earning ability, etc. Also, all the new factors - including accumulation of estate, etc., are FACTORS for alimony, but not generally sources of funds for alimony.
So, here is some advice, if your ex-spouse is disabled, you are likely to still pay alimony. Continue looking for a job if you are not disabled and under the age of 65. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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