Alimony modification Questions


#1

We separated in July 2012, and were heading for litigation in court when he suddenly decided to settle. (I didn’t know at the time, but this was due to the fact that he had just moved in with a new girlfriend.) So we agreed on Alimony numbers that were based on his salary (which was double my salary) and we finalized the divorce in Dec. 2015.

Since then he has paid alimony on time, but has recently lost his job and has just emailed me that he is experiencing age discrimination in his job search and as such, may have to take a lower salary and if so he wants a court visit to lower alimony amount. He still lives with the girlfriend, and they bought a house but his name is not on the deed.

My question is this: can the girlfriend’s salary but considered for purposes of determining a new alimony amount or would they have to be married for it to be considered? What other factors are considered in a request for a modification?


#2

The girlfriend’s salary (even if she was his wife) would not be considered in alimony modification. However, a judge would likely consider the impact of his expenses by having someone live with him (usually expenses will be less by having a roommate, live-in girlfriend, etc. because expenses for one household are typically shared).

However, if your alimony terms are in a separation agreement (vs. a court order), there can only be a modification to the terms if you agree.


Anna Ayscue

Attorney with Rosen Law Firm Cary • Chapel Hill • Durham • Raleigh • Wake Forest

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#3

We have a Consent Order signed by a Family Court Judge, so that is a Court Order, right? Does that mean it can only be changed by a Judge?

So if I understand correctly, the judge may informally consider the girlfriend’s salary? In that case, would she be forced to show what her salary is? How would that process work?

And could I ask that my attorney’s fees by paid for by him? Because I am assuming I would have to get my attorney involved in this.


#4

Yes, you have a court order. So it can be modified with a showing of a substantial change in circumstances. You can agree for it to be modified but if you don’t, a judge could modify it regardless of whether or not you agree.

The judge won’t informally consider the girlfriend’s salary and it would not come into evidence. The judge would consider your ex-husband’s expenses and could determine that he doesn’t have as many expenses due to having someone to share expenses with, thus freeing up some of his income for alimony purposes.

Yes, you could ask for attorney’s fees.


Anna Ayscue

Attorney with Rosen Law Firm Cary • Chapel Hill • Durham • Raleigh • Wake Forest

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