Greetings. I am sorry to tell you that without reading your separation agreement in full I cannot give you advice. The only thing I can tell you is that just because she breached does not mean that you also can breach the agreement. No, you cannot stop paying, but you can start a breach of contract claim against her. Best of luck and let us know if you want us to look it over for you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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