Dear drc4521:
You cannot sue her without money. Focus first on equitable distribution, alimony, and child support. If your husband obtains a divorce before you settle all issues concerning property or alimony, you may lose your rights ENTIRELY to obtain what you are entitled to. Find a way to retain an attorney and move forward. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
NCDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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