Dear kkascm:
Greetings. First, you describe yourself as a dependent spouse and therefore are likely eligible for alimony. No one says you have to go to court and if you retain an attorney, they are likely to be able to first stop the loss of equipment from the house and second get you some alimony.
My advice is to speak with an attorney, even if you have to do it over the telephone, and let us know if you have any other questions. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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