Dear hugheske:
Greetings. If you wife committed adultery, she is not entitled to alimony. The proof you have sounds good to me, but you have to make sure that you can use the proof in court, so talk to your attorney about what proof you will need in addition to what you have. Also, send out Requests for Admission and notice this other fellow to a deposition.
I cannot tell you, without meeting and discussing your entire situation, what is cost effective and what is not. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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