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You pay child support on your income before taxes. The court does not discount your obligation because you also pay taxes on the income. Sorry.
Depending on the size of the return, and if they are wise enough to catch it, it would be included in your gross income.
Yes, but once again that is if they are wise enough to know it is income and to include it. Also, they would need to figure out how much this benefit is really worth.
Yes, you can claim the child care expenses in the worksheet for when the children visit you, but I doubt you can claim them on the tax return (check with a tax attorney on this). It actually works out better for you though if your spouse pays this sum and you then get the tax break (which the calculator automatically computes).
I don’t quite understand this question…but, if your wife pays the transportation expenses she can claim them as extraordinary expenses on the child support calculator and make you pay for a portion of them.
Generally, you will need to travel to North Carolina. If you already have a court action in your home state, you may want to oppose the transfer of jurisdiction though. As always, I advise you to see an attorney in the state where you live about your legal rights there. Best of luck!
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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