Thank you so much for your advice. Me personality, I can’t stop any of my children talking or seeing their parent. I feel children should be in both parents lives.
Yesterday I finally got to kinda speak to my son. Yes on speaker phone. My son is 3 yrs old and I heard him so some really hurtful things. I told him that I loved and missed him. He said, NO you don’t. I said, yes i do, he said No. I then said, Hugs and kisses, He said, we can’t. He always says that because I can’t be next to him in person to give him hugs and kisses like I do all the time.
Then his gram was trying to give him the phone so I could say good-bye. He told her No hang up. I don’t understand what is going on with my son. He is a very respectful lil boy. Now he has a bad attitude, says no all the time, doesn’t listen, especially to me. I know they are letting him get away with everything and not sticking to the rules of correcting him. I tried that yesterday but gram wouldn’t even listen to me. He was even rude to her and I told her to tell him to stop talking like that and it was not a nice thing to say.
EX sent me a video of our son walking along ex bed frame then jumping on the bed. Ummm that doesn’t go on in my home! I don’t want broken heads or bones or even a very hurt child. That can’t be happening. I brought it to his attention and all he did was tell me to grow up.
Everytime my son comes back, I have to spend a few months getting him back to where he was before he left. My son says, “thank you, please”, in my care. With ex he is “give me, I want, throws a fit” What am I doing that is so wrong?
Can any of this stuff be shown or said in court when we finally go for the full custody order instead of this temp order we have been having for 11 months now?