Planning to separate very soon from wife of 16 yrs.
I’m maxed out of credit cards and need to seek debt consolidation.
Does it work in my favor to do it BEFORE or AFTER separating ?
I’m leaving a relationship where I’ve been emotionally / Mentally abused.
I love my wife, but despise the way she bullies me. I hate the way she controls our girls (13 & 7) and sleeps with them. She treats them as equals and confidants (best friends). She tells them everything about our marriage issues. I am poweless in my own home.
I can’t take it anymore.