A motion is not required to be served any particular way once a case has been initiated. Since this is a motion to modify you do have an active file. There is also no requirement that you receive a file stamped copy of the motion.
With respect to the response, you may file a responsive motion prior to hearing, however motions are different from pleadings and the response is usually set forth at the hearing.
You will need to attend calendar call to have a say in when the hearing is actually set, and may ask the court for a continuance at that time based on the fact that you only recently received notice and are living out of state.
Erin E. Clarey
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, NC 28262
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Durham, NC 27713
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