I know I wasn’t supposed to move out before the Agreement was signed but have gone through all the steps to Seperate/Divorce because I wanted to. She wanted me to move out/Seperate to allow both of us to work on bettering ourselves. WTF? I felt like asking me to move out would be the end all to the marriage. She thinks otherwise. She thinks it will make us both stronger and we “may” get back together. I felt is was best to have the Agreement. We have split everything. No more joint anything. Last night we called GEICO and seperated car insurances. That was the last thing that was joint. The only thing left is the signing of the Agreement, Health Insurance (which I pay through my employer until the Divorce) and the Divorce.
I don’t/didn’t want any of this. I want to be with her. The need/want is emotional not financial because we both make over 50K a year. Yes she’s not perfect and neither am I. I don’t want to give up but who knows what the Seperation/living apart will bring. I feel like I’m doing the right thing by having the Agreement even though we have stated to each other we want to be together.
What do you think? Is the Agreement invalid based on we both want to be together or is it void once we cohabitate, conjoin banking, insurances etc?