In NC, if either the plaintiff or defendant in a divorce action has resided in NC for at least 6 months prior to the filing of the complaint, and if the parties have been separated for a minimum of one year, then the divorce can be granted. Whether the defendant “consents” to the divorce is irrelevant, though the defendant may contest the divorce if he or she wishes. Generally, it is pointless to contest the divorce unless the parties have not been separated for the required one year period. An important issue with most out-of-state defendant divorces is “service.” The defendant must be served (provided with a copy of the summons and complaint) by certified mail/return receipt or by sheriff’s delivery.
I hope that helps.
David L. McGuire
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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