He won't leave


#1

There is no way to force a spouse to leave the home under normal circumstances. In North Carolina the only way to force a spouse to leave the home is to file for a divorce from bed and board. This cause of action is based on indignities directed towards the aggrieved souse which render his/her life truly intolerable. The indignities which are most commonly used as a basis for divorce from bed and board are: adultery, habitual drunkenness, physical abuse, and malicious turning out of doors.

If none of these circumstances fit your situation you will need to establish a separate residence in order to file an action for Equitable Distribution. You may then make a motion for interim allocation and ask the court to award you possession of the marital home.

Erin E. Clarey
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm

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#2

I’ve been married for 10 years, we have two children. I’ve been tolerating his passive agressive behavior for years and have recently stopped tolerating. I’m ready for separation, but he won’t go. We’ve been to counseling to no avail. He now tells me I’m not trying. My counselor suggested “shutting down” towards him. Will this come back to haunt me? How can I get him to go?