[i]Originally posted by baseballmom[/i] [br] We have joint custody of two children with my having primary.
I assume this means joint legal custody? You have primary physical custody? Playing the devil’s advocate, why does this necessitate a custody change? I would simply not leave your son with his father if/when you go out of town. I don’t know what the law is about minors staying overnight alone. I have a friend who let his 15 year old stay by herself for a week since we were next door and had all his friends dropping by at any time. In this scenario, if you do have primary physical custody, then the most you could do is take away his visitations altogether and I am not sure that would happen. He could say that he was coming back to the home and checking on him and bringing food in while he was asleep. Could it be possible that he was looking out for him and just not letting him know it?