I have got very confused. First, in NC apparently adultery is not anymore a crime. I am living now a paradigm where appears that a whole courthouse is against me b/se I sued my wife for child custody due to her confessing adultery with a coworker back in March 2006. On May I sue her for child custody since she did not let me see the kids, arguing “recurrent adultery”(she did it before and I forgave her)
This past October, she set me up(for second time, first time I won, she was found with no reason to be “protected”) with a 50b restriction, lying all along that I hit her in a parking lot and she tried to get custody of the kids that way(I haven’t seeing them since April). A judge ruled restriction against me to contact her but allowed the custody case to keep going(Had to get one of the best lawyers in town). That day she appeared in court with the man she confessed to be in love(not even six months separated and we still married), both tried to incite fight with me outside the courtroom but I stood still for such display of disrespect to human dignity.(I believe they are now living together, with my kids, !!!)
A week after, in my hearing case, I(the plaintiff) was allowed to have “supervised visitations”(???) and both, her and me have to go for psychological evaluation. The judge in this case ruled on behalf of her attorney and choose her choice for the examiner.
Also, I want to make my case hear by another judge since this judge appears to be biased, how I can do that? I scheduled in 8 days a hearing with a differnt judge and want him to accept hear the case and I will also say that the previous judge had apologized for not been clear on the child visitations, the reason I had to speak with her thinking she would have had calm down(BIG mistake I made). She is more scornful than ever. BTW, I am Pro Se in the custody case.
I am believing that adultery is no longer taken as an offensive matter,(at least in this NC town) or is that the law there goes for those paying expensive attorneys like she is doing.
Please, let me know what do you think!