Good Evening, my name Nichols Passmore and I just PCs.d here to MCAS cherry point last August. My wife and were married before from march 2001 to may 2007. We divorced for a yr and decided to try again. We have been back together since 2008, I was deployed a good amount after we got.married again for the 2nd time. Our marriage was deteriating then but I got orders over to NC and we both tried to push thru, did counsoling, nothing worked. So it has come down to we are better off being friends and be good parents for our two children. When I got divorced in Hawaii it took 2 months for it to be final, I was told there is a yr seperation time requirment here, I was wondering if that can be waived if it is a second marriage.to the same woman. We both know what we want and how everything is going to.work, but for one yr seperation during these economical hard times its going to be almost impossible for her to get her own place or me. I have a mortgage to pay plus other bills and so does she.
I guess im asking can the one yr seperation be waived so we can just do the
Thank you for your time.