In order for a court to order alimony, one of the spouses must file a lawsuit requesting alimony. If the lawsuit is not filed before entry of divorce judgement then the right to request alimony terminates.
Lisa M. Angel
Board Certified Family Law Specialist
The Rosen Law Firm
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Raleigh, NC 27607
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It doesn’t seem fair that alimony can be ordered after such a long separation.Would it matter if there’s been no sexual contact between us since 1988? I forgot to mention there are no childern involved.
Greetings. Alimony is based on a number of factors: income of the parties, length of marriage, etc. Since she has not received support since the date of separation, and IF she has supported herself, then it would be hard for her to prove that she was a dependent spouse. Therefore, I don’t think it is likely that she will gain alimony, but anything is possible. Best of luck.
P.S. No, it does not matter for alimony when the last time you had sex. I have some clients that have not had sex with their spouses in excess of 10 years, but they still end up paying alimony. Good luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
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