After your divorce is final how long do you have to wait before you can get remarried?
You may get remarried as soon as the divorce decree is entered by the court, there is no waiting period.
okay what is this 6 month waiting thing that people are telling me about after my divorce
I have no idea, there is no law that requires you to wait.
how will I know if my divorce is decree or not and your saying I can get married the next day like i should be divorced in sept I wanna get married in December is that okay?
The decree will be entered the day of the hearing, baring any issues. You may get married the same day, so long as the divorce decree has been entered.