My husband and I are currently separated and have been for about 2 1/2 months. I’ve asked him several times what he wanted to do with the home and he hasn’t said anything. I’m currently paying for the mortgage and another place to reside, he also pays for the other half of the mortgage. I sent an email a couple of weeks ago asking how long he needed to find someplace to stay because his behavior was erratic and impulsive, and I could no longer see any type of reconciliation. He stated that May would be his last mortgage payment and he wanted nothing more to do with me and to figure it out. Both of our names are on the deed and the loan for our home. He asked me to remove him from the deed on the home. Can he do this? Is there anything I have to pay him if I refinance? I plan to refinance on my own and rent out my home.
Also, I want to move me and my two small children to another state where I have support, I’m not from NC. I’m here alone, without any family. We don’t have a separation agreement or a schedule for our kids because he will not go along with what I have, no agreement at all. He just calls when he wants the kids. I want stability and consistency for my kids, which is why I want to pay an attorney to assist with child custody. Can I leave the state permanently without child custody in place legally?