I will be choppy in this post, hoping to not lose readers to length…
Together 20 years, married 12. No children. Shared debt/house/car payment/loans. He left me in Nov 2012 ( Lived in another room in the house since Aug 2012, then physically moved from the home in Nov 2012). He makes about $18k more per year, than I do, with the ability to make additional income at will. He wants me to sell the house (while I and my 2 dogs live there),then pay off the debts and be done. I don’t really want to leave my home, but cannot afford the house/car payments and debts alone…I certainly didn’t buy them alone…
Since he left me, should I file for separation and divorce or should he?
Can I expect any type of separation support or alimony? How can I even guess how much, so I can plan on what to do?
What should I do to protect my rights?
What do I do?!?