Payor and Obligor

Can you help me understand N.C.G.S 50.16.1A 3(e)? Per Oxford: An obligor is a person or entity who is legally or contractually obliged to provide a benefit or payment to another. But per the statute “Payor is a payor…of disposable income to an obligor” (the person who provides payment to another).

So, an obligor provides payment AND a payor provides payment? Can you help me define Payor in laymen’s terms here and how “disposable income” factors into this definition in regards to Divorce and Alimony?

For family law purposes, payor and obligor would be the same thing. It would be better practice to use the term “payor” instead. Or even, “the paying spouse” or in terms of alimony, “the supporting spouse.”

The disposable income of a person required to pay alimony is highly subjective. The best way to determine one spouse’s need for alimony and one spouse’s ability to pay alimony is for both parties to complete financial affidavits which is a list of each party’s income and all of their monthly expenses, or annual expenses broken into monthly amounts.

Some counties have their own county-specific financial affidavit. For example, take a look at Wake County’s Financial Affidavit.


Anna Ayscue

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Re: Payor - that’s my point. What does it mean to be a “payor to a payor (obligor)”? Essentially the statute reads “A payor is a payor of disposable income to a payor”. That makes no sense to me. Can you give me a real world example?

Where do you see that language in the statutes? I can clarify and provide context and examples.


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The original Statute mentioned above. N.C.G.S 50.16.1A 3(e) “Payor” means any payor, including any federal, State, or local governmental unit, of disposable income to an obligor.

That definition is listed in regards to alimony and postseparation support (PSS). The payor is the spouse that is ordered to pay alimony or PSS, who is also the supporting spouse. The payor, the person paying, owes money (PSS, alimony) to the recipient spouse, or the dependent spouse.

It’s probably best to use the terms “paying party” or “supporting spouse” rather than “payor” or “obligor,” etc.


Anna Ayscue

Attorney with Rosen Law Firm Cary • Chapel Hill • Durham • Raleigh • Wake Forest

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Okay. I think the term obligor threw me off because it can mean “payor”. But I think here obligor refers to a “person who is bound to another by contract or other legal procedure” and thus the defendant spouse? Sorry for the further clarification but it’s crucial in my case. Is my thinking now correct?

Yes, that is one possible and correct definition of “obligor.”


Anna Ayscue

Attorney with Rosen Law Firm Cary • Chapel Hill • Durham • Raleigh • Wake Forest

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