Propery spliting

The best case scenerio is that you and your wife would reach an agreement about who will be responsible for the marital residence after you separate and/or divorce. Whatever you agree to should be put in writing. Generally this would be accomplished through a Separation Agreement. A Separation Agreement can also spell out additional terms, such as obligating the party keeping the house to refinance any joint loans (such as a mortgage) into their own name within a given period of time.

If you cannot reach an agreement on this issue, either party has the option of filing a lawsuit for equitable distribution of the marital assets, including the house. A judge would then decide which party will keep the house and under what terms. A claim for equitable distribution must be made prior to one party obtaining an absolute divorce.

You are correct that if you do nothing, you and your wife will both remain equally liable on any mortgages or loans secured by the house. If mortgage payments are paid late, this will be reflected on your credit report. If the mortgage goes into default and the lender forecloses, this will also be reflected on your credit report and could result in a large deficiency judgment against you.

Robin F. Verhoeven
Attorney at Law
Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607

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After 16 yrs my wife and I are getting a divorce,we have two kids 16 an 8yr old. we split all the utilities and mortage down the middle. When the divorce is done will she get the house which she can not manitain and will go into forecloser and wreck my credit or will we be told to sell and just split the property inside.[?]