Greetings. First, I have no idea what forms you mean for your separation. Many people sign separation agreements, but there are no standard forms…there is just contract provisions.
I cannot advise you enough not to execute an agreement without an attorney. If you have a house, retirement, children, or any debt…it may be imperative that you have an attorney assist you. No, there is not an agency for free legal advice/help for separation agreements. Some people take on debt to have attorney assistance, but they usually save the funds in the long run.
You need to think about alimony also. Yes, you should ask for your health insurance to be continued.
Yes, you can pursue child support through the child support enforcement agency and not include it in your separation agreement.
I do not advise that you use the warrant information as negotiating power over child custody, but that is up to you. He could easily remedy this situation by paying the fine, going to court, etc.
Not to sound crass, but with all the questions you have here, how do you intend to draft and execute your own agreement and ensure that all your concerns are taken care of correctly the first time? You may not have a lot of funds, but at a minimum I suggest that you look into having an attorney review your draft.
This agreement will be one that will last you the entire lives of your children, and if done properly will save you conflict long term and more costs in court. We are glad to help guide you through the basics on our website, but I strongly recommend that you have someone (even us if you are close by) review your draft. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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