I have joint physical and legal custody of my son. I get 21 days of vacation each year as long as I give his mother 31 days notice. I have done that and now his school is telling me I cannot pick my child up from school because the mother doesn’t agree. Can the school keep me from picking him up from school if I have joint physical and legal custody? (Gaston County)

They should allow you to pick your child up. Show them the court order that grants you joint legal and physical custody.