Greetings. Your separation agreement is valid and binding if it was signed by both of you and notarized. Hopefully you had an attorney assist you with the separation agreement and there is a clause in your agreement which deals with “situs” or in other words, what laws your contract will be construed under.
Since Husband already filed for divorce, it would preclude you from filing for divorce in North Carolina.
Whether or not anything in your specific separation agreement can be changed by any other state depends on that state’s laws and the language in your separation agreement. For example, child support and child custody are always modifiable, even if they are dealt with in your separation agreement. Best to get an attorney to review your agreement and address the specific concerns you have. Best of Luck!
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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