My wife and I have been struggling through marital issues for some time, she has been involved with another man for about a year. I found out about 6 months ago and we tried to work it out. At the same time, I accepted another job that was located out of state about an hour away and decided it would be best that we try the commute to not disrupt the children. I found out in April that she had not stopped seeing him. She left the house for a week to get some clarity about what she wanted. Due to the fact that the marriage was struggling, and my job was suffering, we decided that relocating with the job, (company supported) would be best to restart our family and marriage. One month into the house being on the market, she has still not ceased the relationship with him and I’ve made the decision to end the marriage.
I want what is best for the kids, and I also want custody of them. i obviously have to move for my job, what is the best course of action to help me with getting custody of the kids? Will i be able to move them out of state and still maintain a schedule for their mother to see them?
Can this be solved with a mediation? Thanks for your help.