Dear frustrated:
Greetings. It is time to put your foot down to your unreasonable and angry spouse. Here is my suggestion. Tell her a date certain that you plan to move. Tell her that from the date you move you will pay guideline child support, and if you are liable in the future for alimony, tell her that you will pay only 1/3 of the sum you have offered previously. I would put the date of the move two or three weeks out and really plan to move. The motivation to get a good deal should help her to sign.
When in doubt and stuck, sometimes all you can do is move out. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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