Dear shariB0822:
Greetings. First, have you settled the issues of alimony and property distribution? If not, you do not want a divorce until you do. Do you want half his retirement? If so, you cannot obtain it if you file for and receive a divorce judgment and no one has filed a claim for equitable distribution.
Second, you are still married for your filing status. Best of luck!
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
NCDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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