Transporting children to non custodial home


#1

my ex and i have been separated a little over a year. he moved in with a girlfriend 20 miles from here at that time. we have a verbal agreement that he picks up the kids every other weekend and has them for 2 nights. lately, he has been expecting me to pick up the girls on sunday evenings, claiming i should do it because he pays child support. i am not the one that decided to move so far out, and i don’t always have enough money for gas to drive out there. i usually fill up my tank when i get paid and i work close to home, so it can last 2 weeks if i don’t have to drive to knightdale. i already agreed to let him off $125 on child support because i did not want to wait 4 months for a court date.
who usually pays for transportation in this situation?


#2

There is also no “usual” for payment of transportation if there is no order stating who transports the children for custody exchanges.