Various Questions


#1
  1. is there another means of divorce other than an absolute divorce?
  2. how do I proceed without a settlement agreement if I’ve been served with divorce paperwork?
  3. can I file a counter-complaint for divorce?
  4. how do I address retirement benefits?
  5. what other issues must I address in the beginning so that I do not lose the right to request it later

#2

If you have been sued for absolute divorce you MUST file a counterclaim for equitable distribution (and alimony if you are so entitled) or you will lose your right to receive a portion of your spouse’s retirement benefits as all property becomes the separate property of the title owner upon divorce.