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I am currently married and I just do not have it in me anymore. Been married for 11 years, but have been unhappy for the last 4 years. Our relationship started out good, but now we have grown apart. We do not do things together; mainly cause she is heavily involved with her church and I am not a a big church person. She currently is unemployed and although she says she is looking for work have not found one. This is how its been for the last 5+ years and quite frankly I am physically and emotionally tired. We have three children so I know child support is a given and have absolutely not problem with that. I am not heartless, so I wont leave at this moment, but I don’t want to drag it on further either. We hardly speak to each other… My questions is what are my options in regards to separation and divorce? Will I have to pay alimony?