Well, I will have to come clean. I have had a one day affair, one visit, with my college sweetheart. We hadn’t spoken in 30 years and found each other on Facebook about 6 weeks ago…
I had been on the verge of leaving my wife of 15 years for some time now and this is enough to push me over the edge. I don’t know if anything will become of this new relationship but it has reminded me of what passion is like. :shock:
I have gone back and looked at the last 5 years tax returns. We both are self- employed business owners of separate businesses. Hers is actually doing much better than mine since the recession has hit us. She will probably make 50,000 more than me this year. Over the past 5 year period our incomes have averaged about the same amount. I am hoping to have an even split of assets. This would leave her with our house (free and clear) half of a beach house, some cash and her business. I hope to leave with our rental houses and a little cash and my business.
Will my infidelity have any effect on my desire to split everything 50:50?
Is there a chance of my having to pay alimony?
Is there any chance my college sweetheart would be sued in an AA case?
Will my continuing to see my college sweetheart after the separation have any effect on the proceedings if we end up in court?