Not a lawyer, but this may help:
- Yes, you will still have to wait a year
- NC is a “no fault” divorce state in almost all instances (adultery is NOT an exception, sorry). Yes this is the quickest way to a divorce. A year is the minimum, when there is an exception to the year wait, it is usually LONGER than year to get a divorce.
- Marital property will be spilt, though if you can prove the affair, Party A will forfeit a claim on alimony.
- No, you will need to see a lawyer and have an agreement drafted then signed by both of you. Though as far as the time limit is concerned, if you can prove the two of you have been living apart the year will start at the time shown by the proof you submit.
Hope that helps.