Greetings. No, receiving alimony should not distract from your disability.
Now, we cannot on this forum advise you on amounts to ask for in alimony. Alimony negotiations are based on more than just the income differences between the parties, although that is a large issue, it is not the only one. Yes, four years may be a reasonable length for alimony.
My suggestion is that you speak with an attorney concerning your situation. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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