Dear Shaker:
Greetings. Yes, you do need to try to obtain this information, as it will bolster your alimony position should your case go to court, instead of resolving amicably. You should contact a private investigator in your area and have your husband followed. Get a PI that has the newest equipment (like car mounted recording devices, etc.) Let us know what proof you uncover.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
NCDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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