Can I use E-mails as evidence of fault

If you accessed his email or online accounts without permission you may have committed a violation of the federal wire tapping acts. If that is the case you will not be able to use this evidence in court. In order to bar him from receiving alimony he needs to actually commit an act of illicit sexual conduct with another person. It might be worth your money to hire a private investigator.

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I recently discovered that my husband has been soliciting sex on the internet. I do not know if he has actually gone through with the acts that he has suggested. I found this out by logging into his accounts. He, naturally, did not give me permission to do this. The computer that he is using is in our home. It was purchased by my business (sole prop/LLC) and the internet bill is paid for by my business. I also use this computer at home for business purposes. While I know that the business will be considered as a marital asset if we get as far as ED, I am interested in knowing if I can use any of the information that I have found as a basis for fault. I am the spouse that makes the most money and have been for all of our marriage. Can I use any of this information to limit/eliminate alimony payments to this lovely man?