You do not need a Separation Agreement to prove the date of separation. The testimony of either party would be evidence as to the date. If there is a dispute it can be proven using evidence, such as utility bills, etc.
There is no specific charge of abandonment, it is something you allege when making a claim to the court for support or equitable distribution.
Alienation of Affection means that the parties had a happy marriage and the actions of a third party alienated one spouse and destroyed the happy marriage. Simply moving in with someone does not prove alienation of affection.
If he is not paying child support she can contact Child Support enforcement and they will pursue child support on her behalf. Their website if www.ncchildsupport.com.
Helena M. Nevicosi
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