My ex wife and I currently have joint custody of our 2 children. Currently there is no child support being paid. The children are with me on a week on/week off basis. They use my address to go to school. On the weeks my ex has them, she drops them off with me at 7:30 in the morning and picks them up at 8pm. Just in time to put them to bed. The way that I read the North Carolina Child Support Guidlines they only count “nights with each parent”. This is a significant financial and emotional burden, yet my ex refuses to provide any means of support for this time. I can’t even get her to pay her bills that are left over from the divorce (Joint Credit Card that she is responsible for, but cannot refinance).
I believe the best solution is to take her to court for Custody, but at this time, I cannot afford the court costs. Any help would be appreciated.