addendum - ex husband is to pay 100% of uninsured medical costs which by court order started in July '07. Each month I will send him the bills, which I pay upfront. He never sends the money. Finally in Deember he sent the money (only totaling 500 for 6 months - so not that much) after my lawyer had to send his letters threatening to take him to court. Now here we go again, a bill I sent to him last month has not been paid by him. These bils I have to pay upfront, so it would not work to send him the bills right from the doctor/dentist/drug store etc
I am incurring lawyer costs just to get him to abide by the court order. He makes over the guidelines so he has the money, he is just being rude (in my mind)
Question - at the hearing we have in the spring that he brought on to reduce child support, can my lawyer bring this behavior of his up and ask for these costs to be paid with the monthly child support. He pays via the NC child support and although he is late, he does pay this each month.