Children Being Kept at a Distance


#1

If you are worried she would flee, the best court of action is probably to file the action and ask the court for a temporary restraining order preventing her from moving with the children, and then move back.

I wish you the best of luck.

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#2

In 2005 my wife took our 4 children and moved without warning three hours away from our home. I discovered she had been having an affair for 2 years and that the 4th child was not mine. I was as involved with my children from a distance as possible. Over the year of separation before our divorce I hammered out a very basic visitation schedule which we had notorized as part of a non-court ordered custody agreement. It was not what I wanted, but it was the best I could get without an attorney. I was advised by an attorney that as a single man at a distance from my children it was highly unlikely that I could win custody of them since I was single and could not be at home with them, wheras my ex-spouse could be. I wanted to move to be closer to my kids but my ex spouse promised to run away again. I did not have sufficient money for a custody battle. I decided to move out of state for a year to earn good money for an attorney.

During this year I have called my children daily and have flown back to NC 1 weekend a month for visits. I am a highly dedicated father. I have remarried and am moving back to NC to live in the same town as my kids. Again my ex is threatening to flee if I come closer. Can I compel her to keep my children close by? How can I keep her from running off with my children? Should I initiate mediation and custody issues before or after I relocate?