I have filed contempt because while we have joint custody my x has made major medical decisions without consulting with me first.
In a few cases she did consult with me but she denied me the time I requested to fully research the decsions being made (this is on the order) and simply went forward with her decision. I requested second opinion and was denied.
In more than one circumstance I have attended the medical appointment only to be told the decisions were made prior via phone calls or letters and the appointment was scheduled to carry out the decision not discuss options etc as I had been led to believe.
To put it in my own words she tells me what she is going to do and does it, or does it and tells me later.
These situations were in no way an emergency or even urgent
She now has a date and order to show cause.
What COULD be considered reasonable cause in this circumstance.