Custody Modification


#1

If you have lived in Wake County since 2004 and have lived in Wake County continuously since then, then jurisdiction should be here in Wake County. You can file a motion to decline jurisdiction and ask for the case to be transferred here.

I cannot tell you what would happen in VA, as I am not licensed to practice there.

Moving alone does not cause instability. The court will consider all the facts relevant to your case; the functioning of your children, your ability to care for the children, your ex’s stability, the involvement each of you has had with the children. If your Husband has only been minimally involved with the children, the court is unlikely to take the children away from you. This opinion is based only on the facts you have posted.

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#2

I have had sole custody of my 2 sons since 2002. When I left the marital home in 2001, it was under domestic violence, which the military did find reasonable cause that my then husband had hurt not only myself, but the two kids as well (they were toddlers then). My now exhusband has since remarried (2004) and has a child with his wife (baby conceived and born before the divorce was final) as well as I have another child. I left the marital home and moved to FL to live with my mother. I moved to NC in 2003 and have lived here ever since. In 2004 I moved to Wake County. I moved twice in 2007. I moved the first of 07 but the children had a very difficult time with it - school and daycare both reported the children acting out. I moved my family out of that situation immediately (8-07) and the children have stabilized. The notice to amend states “mothers instability”. The father has moved 1 since the divorce, also in 2007. The children are both boys, elementary school age, and one has stated a desire to live with dad for 1 school year, which I emailed dad about in Dec/Jan of this year. Being as how I have been the primary caretaker for the entire life of these children, as well as their father has been semi-involved in their lives (other than twice, we have worked out additional visitation for him to see the kids), do I stand a chance of loosing my kids? The case is to be heard in VA (they were the original state for custody) although we were divorced here in NC. Do I have grounds to have the case here? The youngest child suffers from a mental illness and the father is refusing to give medication because he doesnt feel the child needs it. Psychiatrist has documented his refual. All the kids doctors/teachers/friends, etc live here. It would be next to impossible to get them to VA to testify. How do I go about moving the case here? I really do not have 200.00 to talk to a lawyer right now. Thank you.