If the conduct had an actual effect on the children then it can affect custody. For example, if your spouse had an affair with a drug addict and introduced them to the children. Marital misconduct that only affects the marital relationship will not have an impact on custody.
Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
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