Greetings. If your friend and his wife will testify on your behalf, there is no issue. Even if you are having an affair, that has little to no relevance to custody unless you were leaving the children in order to spend timw with this man.
I think that it all comes down to whether or not this man/friend and his wife will help you.
If you want him to stop whining to you about an affair, give him the name and number of the man’s wife and tell him to call her because she is also your friend. You may also want to take a trip out to their house to prove you are friends with both at some time in the near future. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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